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Long Time, No Talk

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The last time I wrote a blog post, I was living in an Extended Stay hotel in a new state, with no address of my own. I felt forced out of my previous home by the unwillingness of insurance companies to accept the fact that their business is, in essence, gambling. They chose to jettison all bets that appeared likely …

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A Writer’s Midlife Crisis

In Getting Personal, History

There is a lie we tell our children. It goes something like this: “If you set your mind to a goal, you can achieve it. Anything is possible if you work hard enough.” We tell our kids they can be an astronaut, a ballerina, a basketball player, a physicist, or even the president. It’s not true. At least it wasn’t for me. I …

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Songs for Writers

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I went running yesterday, and as often happens when I run, my mind turned to writing. I have a running playlist, but instead of using these songs as motivation to exercise, I usually apply them to writing. Yesterday, I realized my playlist mapped out way more of the writing process than the get-your-ass-around-this-track process. Why? I’ve been going through a spectrum …